My take on school bullying as a victim

I have come a long way as a victim of high school bullying.

However, my experience makes me see that had I not been led to overcome its trauma by overcoming my character flaw then the no matter how much sympathy I got, it wouldn't have helped me at all.

There are those who get unfairly treated by their peers but I do say that it is not totally the peers' fault and responsibility only.

The bullying is due to the fact that the victim allowed it to happen by not standing up against it in an effective way.

If the victim had managed to fight back in a proper way, the bullying would be impossible and would not work the way the instigators would have intended.

Usually it is the meekness or weak personality margining on eliciting contempt that starts off a more hostile type or type of group to take advantage.

The answer lies in a friendly climate and supporting climate but the victim must strive to come out of it alone.

This can be done with enough pushing around in some cases.

A girl or a boy who had enough of being bullied with the right kind of support can overcome their character flaws and rise to the occasion.

 

Sometimes you need to let them alone. The victims I mean without giving them unnecessary and even harmful pampering or sympathy.

That victim needs to learn to stand up.

and as the mother bird drops its fledgling down from high air to induce to fly

you need to be cold yet warm so as not to induce more emotional pain than is already experienced by the victim.

 

I remember the animation Goofy Story.

It is how Goofy's child who overcomes school bullying through striving and pulling off a feasible but reputable deed.

 

 

This type of people have more to offer to the world than their offenders I believe.

For they have experienced being in a pit of dark misery then came forth out of it.

 

 

I thank Leo and Matt and Young and Professor Kang and Chon and other professors and people who supported me in coming out from my mire in a fantastic way.

 

I also thank So Jin who coldly let me alone at one time without taking away her friendship and had me resolve to stand up alone without seeking nice friendly actions done out of pity from my classmates.

 

 

I thank Young and Dad for their audacity and drastic love in the way they supported me.

 

and I thank Leo for his many strategic guidance that really worked and proved results.

and Matt for holding on and giving me stability as I floundered all over at times in my time of coming out.

 

 

Love to all and God.

 

thanks dad !!